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Influence Is Power: Power Is Persuasion

Sunday, September 24th, 2017

Leadership is the ability to get people to follow you, while influence is the ability to keep the people who follow you for an extended period of time. In addition, influence refers to the ability to put a positive or negative spin on the actions, behavior, and/or opinions of other people. In other words, influence is power and power is persuasion!

If a leader does not have influence over other team, then they will not have the power to persuade their team to complete the assigned tasks. However, influence and persuasion requires a foundation of trust. Without trust, employees are less likely to adopt the values, culture, and mission of the organization in a sincere, lasting way. Furthermore, since the ability to exert positive influence is something that is developed over time, learning to become an effective leader often takes years of experiences. Research has proven that all people have the ability to influence others, and every individual will lead someone-or multiple people-at one point or another.

One thing a leader must remember is that they do not know to what degree they are truly influencing others. Consequently, leaders must tread carefully, as they do not know how much others will do for them, nor do leaders know how much their team members will act just like them as the leader directs the members. Provided are the areas of power which will lead to persuasion, in which a leader can specialize in to increase their influencing skills:

  • Expert Power – Power that is associated with the leader being an expert in several areas. The leader has attained more knowledge, degrees and accomplishments than anyone else in the group.
  • Reward Power – Power that is associated with the leader giving out rewards. These rewards are related to the job such as: raises, bonuses, vacations, special recognitions, and etc.
  • Coercive Power – Power that is associated with the leader penalizing the workers for not successfully completing the tasks. The employees often fear the consequences and what is expected of them. They employees are usually so scared of this type of leader that it effects the results of their performances. This power can form resentment and resistance from the employees.
  • Reverent Power – Power associated with a leader when they have a strong effect on a person that will cause that person to have a direct attraction to the leader. The individual will basically do anything that the leader or the person with the power says, because they are so attracted to the leader’s power of authority.
  • Legitimate Power – Power that is associated with a leader because they hold a leadership position. It is the power that comes from having a title or a position. This is called positional power.
  • Gender Power – Power that is associated with the leader who is given power because of their gender status. Some of the times, the opposite sex will confer their power so that all genders will receive equal representation.
  • Attitude Power – Power that is associated with the leader who has a positive and flexible attitude and can keep the team members balanced. This person is a peacemaker, and has great conflict resolution skills. On the other hand, it can be power that is associated with the person who became the leader because they have the strongest attitude or personality out of all the people in the group. This leader is usually the most aggressive, dominant, and talkative person in the group. Sometimes, they are voted to be the leader because the group members do not want to be attacked.
  • Lack of Desire – Power that is associated with a leader because no one else has the desire to lead. This leader is in charge because no one else would like to be responsible for the duties and responsibilities. This leader usually does most of the work him or herself.
  • Charisma or personal power – Power that is associated with a leader because of their charismatic personality. These leaders have charm, they are interesting, and they are amusing. They are voted to be the leader because the others feel that their work will be creative and exciting.
  • Character or ethics power – Power that is associated with a leader because they are the most trustworthy individual within the group. This leader is given the position because he or she is a hard worker, reliable and responsible. Sometimes this leader will complete all of the work him or herself.
  • Connection power – Power that is associated with a leader because they know a lot of people of importance. This leader is given the position, because he or she knows other powerful people who can help and give the organization a financial contribution.

An effective leader should be knowledgeable about the different types of power. This information serves as a self-assessment so the leader can review which sources of power do they current use at their organization(s). Leaders can also utilize this information so they can assess and identify the different types of power that their employees are currently using. Knowing this information will assist a leader with making major decisions. Persuasion The level of your influence and your power is dependent upon your persuasion skills. Being able to persuade another person will be determined by the success one’s educational, career, professional, and personal experiences. A person’s character and personality traits are very important when it comes to persuading others. How a leader communicates is vital when a leader has to persuade an employee. In other words, a leader’s skills, knowledge, and actions will determine is an employee has been persuaded, by the power of the leader whose influence motivated an employee to carry out the tasks.

All leaders need to improve their persuasion skills of influences. Improving your persuasion skills will make you more powerful, and it will increase your level of influence. To improve your persuasion skills, please review the list and highlight the areas that you need to make self-improvements on:

Improve the following…

  • Decision-Making Skills
  • Communication Skills (Verbal/Non-Verbal)
  • Conflict Management Skills
  • Marketing and Media Skills
  • Technology Skills
  • Life Skills


  • Knowledge of job duties and responsibilities
  • Commitment and consistency
  • Quality content and materials
  • Trust and the building of new relationships over time
  • Helpful work ethics
  • A positive image and behaviors

Leaders should be able too…

  • Understand the psychology of people
  • Teach and develop others
  • Show knowledge of how to motivate others
  • Tailor meeting presentations accordingly
  • Display a professional business model
  • Repeat the vision and mission statements
  • Discuss the facts – content is key
  • Share good and related examples and stories
  • Provide evidence that supports your position
  • Understand the personalities of the team members
  • Network and share ideas with other experts
  • Make others become more successful
  • Celebrate others’ success stories
  • Get active in the community
  • Find positive role models
  • Study the main competitors

Leaders working on ways to influences others, must first work on him or her sources of power and persuasion techniques. For each situation, an effective leader should be able to identify which sources of power and persuasive methods should be used and which ones should not be used in order to properly improve their organization. Effective leaders need to know they can select another source of power and another persuasive method in order to get different positive outcomes and results. Leaders who master the ways to positively persuade their employees, find that once their employees understands the organization’s goals, and have a great relationship with the leaders, then the employees unusually comply and carry out the assigned tasks with no troubles. Remember when improving your Influencing Skills, you should work on your Sources of Power and Persuasion Skills, they do not work well without the other. In other words, when trying to improve in one of these areas, for better and quicker results, an effective leader should work on all 3 of the areas at the same time.

Looking Within and Beyond

Sunday, September 24th, 2017

Perhaps it’s time to think what it means to be a poet writing in English in a country that hardly cares about poetry. Of course poetry collections keep appearing, mostly with the poets’ own money, in print and online, but reaching out to influential media and academia has been difficult. The general support is missing.

Power and politics apart, practicing poets and editors such as D C Chambial, P C K Prem, T V Reddy, P K Joy, I K Sharma, R K Singh, Angelee Deodhar, Atma Ram, H S Bhatia, Pronab K Majumder, P Raja, Sudhir K Arora, Abnish Singh Chauhan, C L Khatri, Shaleen Kumar Singh, K V Dominic, C L Khatri, and scores of others have been liberally supporting the potent voices that merit public and academic attention. Even as they demonstrate understanding of the poets’ relationship to both the present and the past, to the rich literary tradition, and to the sociopolitical system that negates their presence, the problem of literary mediation persists. Their muse struggles for space in the world of Literature.

Unless academic research on emerging and marginalized poets and writers in English locally, regionally, and nationally is promoted as policy, the native literary culture won’t develop. It would not only be difficult but also partial, exclusive, elitist, and negative to discuss contemporary trends and consciousness in creative writing without talking about hundreds of new voices that appeared post-Ezekiel.

If a poet like V V B Ramarao is noted, — he is an experienced academic, bilingual writer, and translator,– it is not only because of his ability to carry the message of Indian culture and heritage with dignity but also because of his ability to communicate. He sounds collaborative with contemporary life and society and writes with a purpose, which is both personal and social. Aware of the generational shift, he views the external world with a critical eye and tries to talk frankly. In the process he turns within to become religious, moral, and interpretative.

His manas, sensitive and matured as it is, creatively explores the conflict-ridden world-”killing, ripping, raping, mauling” with “strange codes for strange outrages”-and transforms into a life of love, goodness, and compassion: “Will vultures be transformed/into white doves, blue pigeons and black birds?” (‘The Seer’s Eye’), he suspects, but sounds reassuring, when he says, “Suffering needn’t necessarily degrade” (‘Vetting a Poet’).

As he exposes what he observes outside – “Threats of extinction wholesale are on the cards again,” with Laloosaurs, tyrannosaurs, psittacosaurus, Apatosaurus, saltosaurus, and so many other hydra-heads that challenge humanity everywhere (“Maybe the centre cannot hold, things are falling apart” -Pessimism), he demonstrates his strength inside: “But faith I’d never lose.” He turns positive and calls for order, for looking within, through the microscope of oneself, for seeing what he visualizes as “whiteness of mind” and “infant’s face.”

Most of his poems are replete with images and metaphors that reveal wisdom, knowledge, understanding, and discerning insight: “What is without is within/Look for the infant’s face in the one you love:/Just look within” (‘Look Within’); “Ask not what the world has come to–/Realize what you have come to” (Mall Malady Moron); and “Blessed it is to be in solitude/A consummation devoutly to be wished/That’s all we need to know” (‘Bliss it is’).

The moralist and teacher in him is ever vigilant: “It is not enough to have a watch right on your wrist/You should know the value of time” (‘For Our Grandchildren’); “Spirituality needs wisdom and piety” (‘Seeing through I.C.U.’); “Days of deliverance recede far and farther/Hydra-heads cannot be decapitated at all” (‘Breasts of Prey’); “Between ism and feminism falls the shadow/For Hers is the kingdom/Time doesn’t heal: it only blunts./All is not vanity:/Pain is real” (‘Blunted’); and “Karmic suffering alone purges off dross” (‘Soul in transit’).

Ramarao’s didactic tone in many a poem may or may not appeal the new generation readership but the radiance of his thought may be felt by everyone. He tastes and shares liberally what he calls “delicatessen” in poesy via saintly wisdom: “Some tales in our scripture like epics are guidelines for all.”

Like a seer-poet, he movingly uses his metaphors to convey what may appear unpleasant but is true. He critically meditates on various social issues of the time and communicates his own personal vision, revealing the experienced scholar he has been and searching his own salvation. His poetry defines the way he perceives the world around him and demonstrates what lies inside him. There is a touch of faith in what he says. To that extent, his poetry is criticism, with clarity of thought and diction, and added humour, irony, satire, and moral tone that draws him to the ways of the self with the same zeal as he commits himself to bhakti or devotion to the divine.

In fact he flirts with the muse to experience the human and divine as a seeker (cf. ‘Winter Rain’ and ‘Foul Play’). In his ‘Winter Blossoms’ and other poems loaded with sex, he seeks to stress how “amorous sex” is a means of fulfillment. If one desires more and more of it, it is because, to quite J. Krishnamurti, “there is the cessation of self-consciousness, of the ‘me’… complete self-forgetfulness.” It’s a condition to free the self, a self-free spiritual state, “seeking to be free of conflict because with the cessation of conflict, there is joy. If there can be freedom from conflict, there is happiness at all different levels of existence.”

When Ramarao’s narrator talks about give and take, yearning for ebullient warmth, in absolute oneness of physical union, he seeks a greater continuity of pleasure, and an escape from the deadly sense of emptiness, isolation, loneliness. “Loneliness is hell,” says he. The poet seeks solace in the advait philosophy of unity, but cautions: “Libido is not all-it can ignite another flaming hell” (‘Vetting a Poet’). He continues:

“Hidden arsenals haunt a devil mind

Eager to add lusty continents to

The globe bursting at the seams.

No point chanting mantras for navigation benign.”

But love is its own eternity just as discovering the ways of the self through poetry is Ramarao’s meditation. The volume is a discovery of truth which everyone may relish. I am happy to be a part of it as a reader.